The Science Fiction Love Story That Rewards Slow Readers | This Is How You Lose the Time War Review

This Is How You Lose the Time War by Amal El-Mohtar and Max Gladstone

Lacey Christiansen

July 19, 2026

Every reader has a book that reminds them reading isn’t a race. For me, This Is How You Lose the Time War became exactly that. It’s barely 200 pages long, yet it contains enough ideas, metaphors, and emotional breadcrumbs to occupy far longer books. I finished it quickly, but almost immediately wanted to begin again, not because I’d missed the ending, but because I suspected the story had been quietly speaking to me long before I understood what it was saying.

If you enjoy books that ask for your attention instead of your speed, this one deserves a place on your shelf.

*Spoilers will be hidden and labelled so you can choose to read or skip.

Hype Meter

Goodreads: 3.8      |     StoryGraph: 3.98

Slightly under-hyped!

Judging How To Lose the Time War By Its Cover

Two segmented birds reflect across some invisible line; the imagery catches my eye. This is How You Lose the Time War, an interesting title, deepens my interest.

While I don’t love the cover, I cannot deny that it did its job-caught my attention and kept it long enough for me to pick up the book to buy it on a whim. Now, after the fact, I have seen the hardcover version and prefer it (maybe I’ll upgrade).

Unusual as it is, I didn’t know what to expect from This is How You Lose the Time War

Color Story

A red bird and a blue bird take center stage on the cover of This Is How You Lose the Time War. Two primary colors, different but not opposite on the color wheel. Will the colors prove significant in the story?

Typography Notes

The type is a loosely kerned, italic serif with very thick/thin elements. It is a classy, old-school font that is treated unusually. Absolutely not what you might expect for a science fiction novel. Odder still, it interacts with the other visual elements in a weird way. It’s in front at some points and behind in others, but not in a way that appears natural at all.

The interior of This Is How You Lose the Time War is set in New Caledonia typeface. (Love these tidbits, thank you, frontmatter).

Genre Signals

The only signal that tells me This Is How You Lose the Time War is science fiction is the spliced-together images of the birds. It has a kind of tech vibe.

Hidden Details

The Red and Blue colors are significant (the back cover tells us that these are the main characters’ names.

Mood Check

The unusual imagery and strange font treatment of This Is How You Lose the Time War lead me to believe it might be more mental than emotional.

Beyond the Dust Jacket

This Is How You Lose the Time War has extra-wide margins, perfect for annotations (which you will want to make as you piece together this time- and space-bending story).

Did the design affect whether I bought the book?

Perhaps. It grabbed my attention; the back cover did the rest.

Story Snapshot

In Short

Two rival time-traveling agents from warring factions exchange forbidden letters across time and space, falling in love despite knowing their romance could lead to their deaths.

From the Publisher

HUGO AWARD WINNER: BEST NOVELLA • NEBULA AND LOCUS AWARDS WINNER: BEST NOVELLA

“[An] exquisitely crafted tale…Part epistolary romance, part mind-blowing science fiction adventure, this dazzling story unfolds bit by bit, revealing layers of meaning as it plays with cause and effect, wildly imaginative technologies, and increasingly intricate wordplay…This short novel warrants multiple readings to fully unlock its complexities.” —Publishers Weekly (starred review)

From award-winning authors Amal El-Mohtar and Max Gladstone comes an enthralling, romantic novel spanning time and space about two time-traveling rivals who fall in love and must change the past to ensure their future.

Among the ashes of a dying world, an agent of the Commandment finds a letter. It reads: Burn before reading.

Thus begins an unlikely correspondence between two rival agents hellbent on securing the best possible future for their warring factions. Now, what began as a taunt, a battlefield boast, becomes something more. Something epic. Something romantic. Something that could change the past and the future.

Except the discovery of their bond would mean the death of each of them. There’s still a war going on, after all. And someone has to win. That’s how war works, right?

Co-written by two beloved and award-winning sci-fi writers, This Is How You Lose the Time War is an epic love story spanning time and space.

This Is How You Lose the Time War by Amal El-Mothar and Max Gladstone

Lines I Highlighted

One spared life might be worth more to the other side than all the blood that stained Red’s hands today. A fugitive becomes a queen or a scientist or, worse, a poet.

Characters I Followed Into Battle

Red, an operative for the Agency, attempts to adjust history to create outcomes decided by technology. She is opposed by Blue, an operative for the Garden attempting to make corrections for an ecological outcome. They are on opposite sides of an ongoing war that spans time and space, but a mutual respect for the other’s skills begins an exchange that changes each of them forever.

Lines I Highlighted

It amuses Blue to no end that, in disabling their temple, in mounting this attack, she has, herself, performed an act of devotion to their god.

Writing Style Notes

The writing is poetic; the words have clearly been carefully chosen for meaning and impact. This book may be short, but there is a lot to unpack. Foreshadowing is skillfully done, and the resolution urges you to read it again to see if you get even more from it.

That is not to imply that This is How You Lose the Time War is dense. Jest, puns, and wordplay pepper the correspondence between Red and Blue. This epistolary exchange is as emotional as it is cryptic.

Lines I Highlighted

Ha-ha, Blueser.

Themes Living Rent-Free In My Head

Technology versus nature, a tale as old as time, is given a fresh face.

Forbidden love, opposites attract, enemies-to-lovers–all the makings of a fine romance

Lines I Highlighted

But which egg preceded what platapus?

What Landed For Me

What Worked:
  • Clear and compelling voices of the main characters
  • Yearning, effort, and the slowest of burns
  • Unique storytelling style
  • Interesting premise, settings, and time travel system
What Didn’t Fully Click:
  • Somewhat difficult to parse through the language to tell what exactly is happening (this is for slow and careful readers)
  • The plot is thin and mostly inferred
Overall:

Worth the read (and probably a re-read)

Lines I Highlighted

Your letter–your last letter. Be certain that I won’t drop it where any of your fellows can read it. It’s mine. I am careful with what belongs to me.

Intentional Reading Reflection

While I had other options to read when I pulled the time travel card, this one was calling to me from the shelf. I had picked it up some time ago and felt like it might be time to give it a try.

I zipped through This is How You Lose the Time War in two days. But I think that I will want to revisit it again when I am in a more reflective mood. This is a book to pour over and savour.

I often feel pressure to move on to the next book waiting on my shelf. This Is How You Lose the Time War reminded me that intentional reading isn’t always about choosing something new. Sometimes it’s about giving a remarkable story enough space to reveal itself. This is one I’ll happily return to when I want to be reminded that slowing down can be part of the pleasure.

Lines I Highlighted

All good stories travel from the outside in.

Cover Promise Rating

Did the cover make promises the story actually kept?

The cover wasn’t wrong, but it didn’t prepare me for what was in store.

Cover Promise Meter on Yellow

Final Verdict

Read if you like:
  • Time-twisting sagas
  • Tales pieced together from snapshots of time, letters, and fragments
  • Romantic entanglement that is all yearning and no spice
  • Two smart people trying to outwit each other while falling in love
Skip if you dislike:
  • Complexity – this one has it in spades!
  • Lyrical prose and/or epistolary exchange (letters)
  • Unclear resolutions

Reading Debris

This is How You Lose the Time War skews multiversal (think two warring factions of the TVA from Marvel’s Loki)

I read This is How You Lose the Time War to fulfill the Playing Card Reading Challenge prompt:

Read a time travel story.

This is How You Lose the Time War could also fulfill the prompts:

Read a book with LGBTQ+ representation.

Read an award-winning book.

Read a book under 200 pages.

Your Turn

Have you ever had a long-term exchange of letters with someone? Tell me about it in the comments!

This Is How You Lose the Time War by Amal El-Mohtar and Max Gladstone

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May your life be as full as your bookshelf and as long as your TBR list.
Happy Reading!
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“Hallucinations” lined, 120-page, paperback journal.

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The Details

This Is How You Lose the Time War
Standalone
Amal El-Mohtar & Max Gladstone
S&S/Saga Press
2020
Cover: Greg Stadnyk, Book: Hilary Zarycky
Science Fiction
Paperback
198

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