Buying the Perfect Birthday Gift: One Experience

Buying the Perfect Birthday Gift: One Experience

Prologue

My mother-in-law, whom we all lovingly call Nanny, turned 70 this year. As a family, we had a lot going on and could not do anything elaborate as a celebration, so I wanted to make sure that the gift we gave would be something she would be excited about. Unfortunately, I was totally void of ideas. When asked she claimed she didn’t want or need anything. Ugh. What do we do? In a fantastic turn of events, I happened to be talking to my oldest, who is a wonderful grandchild and call her Nanny every week, mentioned that she recalled that Nan had once had a series of books that she truly loved that were lost through lending (serious reader infraction!!!). So, I went searching.

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The Story

The book series I was looking for, Tea Rose by Jennifer Donnelly, was not difficult to find, however, no place I looked had a new hardcover copy of the first book!

Then I found it — a first edition signed copy directly from Jennifer Donnelly’s author website! Score!! It was a bit more expensive than a regular hardcover, but you’d expect that. So after talking it through with my husband, we decided to order it and then pick up the rest of the trilogy and the novellas from another retailer (one where we get a discount, cause we aren’t made of money).

The Trilogy:

Novellas:

 

Books 2 and 3 in the Tea Rose Series and 2 novellas.

The Winter Rose. The Wild Rose. Where Roses Fall. Moly’s Letter. All by JenniferDonnelly.

I placed the order and crossed my fingers that the gift would arrive before her birthday so I could wrap it nicely. I quickly received an order confirmation followed by another email asking about the inscription. I told the person that the book was a gift for my mother-in-law’s 70th birthday and that I’d like it to be inscribed to her. They followed up in short order, the book was signed that very day, and shipped out.

It did arrive before the big day. Not only that, but it arrived beautifully wrapped and with a note from the author wishing my MIL a happy birthday! I was so pleased, but a little in suspense about what the inscription inside the book !?!

Note from Jennifer Donnelly with a wrapped, signed, first edition hardcover of The Tea Rose.

I texted a picture to my daughter who called to gush with me over what a cool gift this was and how much we thought Nan would love it!

The other books having arrived I carefully wrapped the books and a little ceramic teapot (because the title of the first book is Tea Rose) in a big gift box with pretty tissue paper and wired ribbon attaching a small bouquet of silk roses to make it extra pretty.

Gift wrapping including a tiny ceramic teapot.

The day came and we went to dinner, strolled through a bookstore together, and had a lovely dessert then returned to the house where she was presented with her gift.

She gushed a bit over the presentation of the gift – I had spent quite some time wrapping it. When she opened the box to find the initial note, written to her by Jennifer Donnelly, she seemed a bit confused. I wondered if she was having trouble reading the handwriting. Later she explained that she thought it was something that I had written and she was confused as to why I would have pretended to be the author (?!?! – I wouldn’t). When it dawned on her that she actually got a note from the author of her favorite book she got wide-eyed. Continuing on, she unwrapped the book itself Tea Rose and started looking at the pages. Missing the signature page entirely, my husband leaned over and helped her to get to the correct spot. She beamed! Simply lit up.

Stack of books wrapped in pretty tissue paper, nestled in a gift box.

She went on to open the rest of the series, including novellas, in hardcover. Ooohing and ahhing over each one. My oldest was on FaceTime to watch the proceedings, but I had her facing me rather than Nanny. She was jumping up and down making the most crazy excited faces. I think she and I enjoyed the giving of this special gift almost as much as my mother in law enjoyed receiving it.

We went on talking about the books and how excited she was about it, along with recounting how her original set had gotten lost for quite some time.

Epilogue
Bookshelf arranged with hardbound books, a bouquet of flowers, and a tiny teapot.

Nanny’s Shelfie

The next day, I received this text:

“Thank you again, Lacey! I don’t think I’ve ever received a more thoughtful, personal, heartfelt gift! I was so touched! I’m still over the moon excited with all the books, especially my signed, First Edition copy of *The Tea Rose*! Feeling loved and blessed! 🥰”

With a shelfie featuring the setup of her new treasures.

Screenshot of a text message from my Mother-in-Law the day after receiving her birthday gift.

Have you ever given or received an amazing bookish gift?

Have you ever had a remarkable interaction with an author?

Share your stories in the comments!

* I am not affiliated in any way with Jennifer Donnelly. I am so entirely pleased with my experience that I wanted to share the story with the book community in hopes that you, too, can have these kinds of interactions with authors and their representatives.

May your life be as full as your bookshelf and as long as your TBR list.
Happy Reading!
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Book Review: Funny Story by Emily Henry

Book Review: Funny Story by Emily Henry

Funny (Witty, Heart-felt, Endearing) Story.

Its a snicker, not a laugh. Adjust your expectations to enjoy this to it’s fullest. Let’s be clear: Funny Story isn’t going to have you snorting wine through your nose. It’s more of a “soft smile, internal chuckle” kind of funny. But if you’re in the mood for a warm-hearted, emotionally smart rom-com with subtle charm and a librarian FMC who accidentally wins your heart (even if she never fully grabs it), then yep— Funny Story might be for you.

Hype Report
With a 4.21 stars average rating on Goodreads and a nod as readers choice romance book of the year 2024, I expected more. Over-hyped.

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Aesthetic

The Dustjacket

The simple, illustrative style evokes the light-hearted rom-com vibes, and I’m here for it. The soft blue violet ground makes the oranges and yellows in the illustration pop! The posture struck by the characters demonstrates their shared state of mind. The use of the lemonade pattern from the front cover as decoration for the spine is a fun detail. The hand-drawn quality of the blocky sans serif font fits seamlessly with the illustration. Filling in the white space with “a novel” brings balance between the author’s name and the book title. This book cover immediately drew my eye amongst the other front-facing titles in the bookstore where I encountered it. The back cover takes elements from the front and shows them rearranged in a shelf at the bottom of the “praise for” section. This carries the personality of the book through the entirety of the cover experience. The inner flaps are nicely justified to avoid rivers. My only critique is that there are four dots in the ellipsis and that maybe it would have looked better if the “It’s a funny story…” were left aligned? Love that the background of the author’s photo is the same color as the accent text on the cover. This is such great attention to detail. Also, the croc shoe graphic on the inner back cover acts as a delightful little wink at the audience. I think this is overall very appealing and well thought through.

Cover to Cover Review Funny Story and image of book cover
Interior

Font selections for the title page and chapter headings is consistent. The tone is maintained through the design elements. The three word all caps lead ins to each chapter are a nice touch. I like that the cover and interior seem to have been planned together and have a nice unity. The whole thing is striking the right tone and not trying too hard.

Did the design affect whether I bought the book?

I want to say no, but I think that it did. I had browsed through the store, looking at many options. I still had the Goodreads Readers Choice winners pinging around in my brain, so when I saw a couple of them in one location in the store, I stopped to peruse more deeply. I re-read the inner flaps and the back covers. Picked up and put down at least 3 books before “taking a lap” and coming back and buying this book – and only this book. I still want to read the others that I saw that day. So I can only surmise that the cover influenced my decision. I am a mood reader, and this was speaking to my mood.

Summary

In Short

Jilted by their exes, Daphne & Miles find their way to happiness with help from each other and their community.

From the Publisher

Daphne always loved the way her fiancé Peter told their story. How they met (on a blustery day), fell in love (over an errant hat), and moved back to his lakeside hometown to begin their life together. He really was good at telling it…right up until the moment he realized he was actually in love with his childhood best friend Petra.

Which is how Daphne begins her new story: Stranded in beautiful Waning Bay, Michigan, without friends or family but with a dream job as a children’s librarian (that barely pays the bills), and proposing to be roommates with the only person who could possibly understand her predicament: Petra’s ex, Miles Nowak.

Scruffy and chaotic—with a penchant for taking solace in the sounds of heart break love ballads—Miles is exactly the opposite of practical, buttoned up Daphne, whose coworkers know so little about her they have a running bet that she’s either FBI or in witness protection. The roommates mainly avoid one another, until one day, while drowning their sorrows, they form a tenuous friendship and a plan. If said plan also involves posting deliberately misleading photos of their summer adventures together, well, who could blame them?

But it’s all just for show, of *course,* because there’s no way Daphne would actually start her new chapter by falling in love with her ex-fiancé’s new fiancée’s ex . . . right?

Character Analysis

​The main characters in Funny Story were pretty well developed and likable. I admire the way that Henry managed to make these “opposites” of sorts not so disparate that their finding harmony together seemed forced. One thing that I noted was that while I liked the main characters, I didn’t love them. I wanted to be excited about them, but they were just “almost”. The antagonists were painted like real-life people, so while I felt angry at them for being jerks, I didn’t hate them. I understand that people can be selfish and so caught up in their heads that they don’t see how their choices affect the people around them. That’s how the “dumpers” read to me. That in itself is refreshing. I’ve read lots of romance books in which the antagonists are so villainized that both the reader and main characters wonder, “What was I thinking?” This seemed more realistic.

The side characters shine. They are colorful and fun, offer comic relief, help the main characters build toward their resolution. However, I just wanted a little bit more. I wanted to love them, but fell just a hair short into likable.

“Cookie Money?” I repeat. “Like he knocked over a Girls Scouts truck and started a black market operation?”

Writing Style

The writing seemed effortless. The story made sense from beginning to end and was descriptive without being boring. There were plenty of details to draw complete mental pictures. The writing was very approachable. Henry treats her readers like they are intelligent (much appreciated) and allows her characters to make intelligent references, be quick-witted, and sassy. The dialogue is well developed and helps to give you a sense of each character’s personality and background.

Themes

Themes of finding yourself, found family, overcoming childhood hangups, and place-making were prominent throughout. I was excited about the place-making theme as it isn’t something I’ve encountered a lot in romance novels. As Daphne feels disconnected from a place that she had moved for her ex, Miles helps introduce her to new aspects of her current location. Meanwhile, Daphne is already making her place at the library where she works and doesn’t even realize her impact until she starts to engage socially with her coworkers. The drive for someone to put down roots was vs to run away from their problems was threaded through multiple character arcs.

Critical Evaluation

The story was well structured and believable, which in this genre can be hard to come by. While there was a little bit of the forced proximity trope, it was completely voluntary – refreshing. The fake relationship trope was well handled and believably applied. The opposites attract trope is handled with so much nuance and grace. The love story unfolded naturally. While there was attraction, the bond was more reliant on actions and words, and the consistent care and consideration of the main characters for each other. A true love story (not just a lust story).

“What in Satan’s ball sack?”

Personal Opinion

For a book called Funny Story, I expected it to be more humorous. Maybe I am just too literal. While there were a couple of situational comedic moments and a few one-liners from a side character or two, it wasn’t a laugh-out-loud kind of book. I think having this expectation going in colored my experience of the book more than I’d have wanted. This might also be due to the cover design. It communicated that there would be significant “com” in this “rom-com.” That said, this book is delightful and witty. I enjoyed the story and the characters, but…

But I didn’t identify with Daphne (FMC) as much as I feel that I do with other FMCs. Miles (Mmc) was great, but I didn’t swoon over him. I guess what I’m saying is that the characters stayed at arms length, I didn’t get sucked in. There wasn’t anything inherently wrong with the characters, but I just wasn’t as enchanted as I’d like to be for a book that was a Goodreads readers’ choice favorite. There goes my expectations, putting a damper on my joy. Damn them.

The FMC is a librarian, so there is a smattering of literary reference throughout. Fun side characters that I feel like could have each had their own wonderful story, again, I just wanted a little bit more than I got.

Recommendation

It’s good. Read it if you have any interest in doing so. It’s maybe not going to knock your socks off, but you won’t regret having spent the time getting to know the characters and their funny story.

Notes

Some heat but not very spicy.

Are you one of the almost one million Goodreads voters who ranked this a top Romance book? Tell me what I am missing.

Haven’t read it yet? Tell me if you plan to and if this review helped you decide!

May your life be as full as your bookshelf and as long as your TBR list.
Happy Reading!
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Book Review: Three Dark Crowns by Kendare Blake

Book Review: Three Dark Crowns by Kendare Blake

Royal blood doesn’t just run thicker than water… it’s practically a weapon.

If sibling rivalry were an Olympic sport, Three Dark Crowns would take gold, poison the silver medalist, and set the podium on fire just for fun. This YA fantasy promises a brutal coming-of-age filled with queens, elemental magic, and a whole lot of familial murder. But does it deliver on that promise… or just make you wait for the sequel to do the heavy lifting?

Hype Report

Goodreads readers ranked this title at 3.79 stars. This book was not at all on my radar, but it seems to have been rated a Kirkus Book of the Year. I am going to go with Over-Hyped.

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Aesthetic

The Cover

First impressions speak to a dark, violent story that is also beautiful and fierce. Three very different crowns speak to three very different main characters; the treatment of the crowns hints at magic. The cover design is simple in a way that appears luxurious. The font choices underscore that aesthetic. The title is more hierarchically important than the author’s name, giving the impression that the book publisher believes the novel will sell better based on the title and graphics than on name recognition alone.

The praise at the top of the back cover gets too close to the top margin and looks like it was an afterthought. I appreciate the addition of the images of the covers of the other books in the series, giving the reader an idea of what kind of commitment the series is to read all the way through.

The spine is so clear and clean. It’s a lovely addition to a bookshelf. No notes.

Interior

The interior is nicely laid out, the text width is large enough to fit a good amount of content per page, and the margins are wide enough to read the entire paperback without breaking the spine. Highly legible fonts with nods to the cover in each chapter’s well-executed drop cap. The chapter titles indicate location. The chapter title treatment, adding a different icon to each location to further the reader’s understanding of place, was a delightful touch.

Not loving the execution of the first title plate with the pattern background. The gradient isn’t the same at the top and bottom of the words, and I am not 100% sure that it adds anything to the reading experience.

The map is nicely executed and really helps to set the tone for the book as well as help curious readers understand the sense of place.

I also enjoyed the rhyme referenced in the book as a stand-alone page after the title plate.

Did the design affect whether I bought the book?

No. This book was given to me by another reader who had purchased it and DNF.

Summary

In Short

Royal triplets, separated in youth, approach their 16th birthday and the beginning of the ceremonious year in which they must kill their siblings to take the throne.

From the Publisher

New York Times Bestseller * New York Public Library Best Book of 2016 * Chicago Public Library Best Book of 2016 * Kirkus Best Book of the Year

Fans of acclaimed author Kendare Blake’s Anna Dressed in Blood will devour Three Dark Crowns, the first book in a dark and inventive fantasy series about three sisters who must fight to the death to become queen.

In every generation on the island of Fennbirn, a set of triplets is born: three queens, all equal heirs to the crown and each possessor of a coveted magic. Mirabella is a fierce elemental, able to spark hungry flames or vicious storms at the snap of her fingers. Katharine is a poisoner, one who can ingest the deadliest poisons without so much as a stomachache. Arsinoe, a naturalist, is said to have the ability to bloom the reddest rose and control the fiercest of lions.

But becoming the Queen Crowned isn’t solely a matter of royal birth. Each sister has to fight for it. And it’s not just a game of win or lose…it’s life or death. The night the sisters turn sixteen, the battle begins. The last queen standing gets the crown.

You can also read the summary from Epic Reads.

YouTube Trailer for Three Dark Crowns book.

Character Analysis

There are a lot of characters in this book. As with any fantasy story, it takes some time to figure out who everyone is, their relationships with each other, and why they are important. Quite a few characters don’t contribute to the plot, so I wonder if they become more important later in the series. The main cast is well described, and you get a sense of who they are. The triplets being fifteen, I found them to be fairly self-aware for that age group and also pretty in tune with the burden their position places on them. There is an interesting range of emotions, but none of them get overly dramatic about them, except for when Mirabella is angry, which manifests in her power. Overall, the characters are well drawn and their motivations are pretty clear.

Writing Style

The writing style is appropriate for a YA novel and keeps up a decent pace, not too fast, but it doesn’t lag either. There were a couple of passages where the sentence structure was confusing, but I figured it out with context clues. The style was consistent throughout. The third-person telling leaves us a little outside of the emotional turmoil that the characters must be experiencing, but given how traumatic the subject matter is, and the age range it is meant for, this is a good thing.

“He bows only to her.”

Themes

This book is rife with “found family” themes, both in terms of the triplets being separated and fostered by other families, and in the friendships that they form with their respective communities. There are some interesting parent-child dynamics that are explored in each of the households. There is a lot of manipulation and abuse; it is, in fact, “dark.”

Critical Evaluation

The twist at the end was foreshadowed very early. I wrote a note on page 29 about the plot twist revealed in the last sentence of the book. That aside, the premise of the story is interesting and begs the question “why?” at every turn. Of course, that is probably the point: a person should not just follow along because they are told to, because that’s how it has always been done. We don’t get that lesson in this book, but I imagine that is where the story will eventually end.

Personal Opinion

Books like this are a pet peeve of mine. The second-to-last sentence in the teaser on the back of the book is: “The night the sisters turn sixteen, the battle begins.” Which leads a reader to believe that this is where the plot will more or less begin. No. The entire book leads up to the night of their sixteenth birthday and ends “with a twist.” The whole first book is backstory, and there is no resolution to the story arc, making it incomplete, and you have to read the second book to know what is promised in the first. An author should not have to rely on writing one “story” and then breaking it into multiple books…make the characters and world interesting enough that they have multiple stories. And publishers…be honest about what you are selling people — a prequel to the story.

There are many references to different plants, specifically poison plants, but also other plants and trees. It makes me feel like I don’t know enough about what is what in nature to be able to accurately imagine what those things might look like. I mostly glaze over it, but if I were trying to form a real mental picture, I would have to look stuff up.

Recommendation

I’m torn. I will likely read the next book in this series, because I am a sucker who feels like they need to read the story I was promised in the teaser, not just the prequel. However, if the next book ends on a cliffhanger with an incomplete telling of the original plot, I will not continue. The writing is good and the themes and character development are compelling. It is dark,k and more sensitive readers should be warned. (My oldest bought this book and could not finish it, which is how it came into my possession).

Notes

There is a lot of abuse of one form or another, and readers should tread carefully if they are sensitive to this kind of subject matter.

If you are an adult who reads YA, what do you love about it?

Share your faves!

May your life be as full as your bookshelf and as long as your TBR list.
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What to Gift at a Housewarming?  Books!

What to Gift at a Housewarming? Books!

Books To Give As Housewarming Gifts

Housewarmings are one of those difficult occasions on which you know you are expected to bring a gift, but you have no idea what the happy new homeowners might want or need. As any bookish person might, I suggest giving the gift of reading. A well-chosen book can be beautiful and useful, adding to the joy of home ownership for years to come.

Coffee table with stack of books, tea cup, bouquet of yellow flowers, and a golden pineapple.

In December 2024, I moved into my 6th (or 7th if you count the overseas rental) house (my husband is retired military, so we’ve moved around a lot), and I can personally attest that every house needs some love to feel like a home. At this point, I feel like I am semi-pro at moving out and moving in, but I only had a housewarming for the first.

Way back then, we received as a housewarming gift the book Martha Stewart’s Homekeeping Handbook. This book has reference material for how to take care of almost anything homekeeping can throw at you.

  • How to maintain your dishwasher ✅
  • How to treat stains ✅
  • How to clean your baseboards ✅

Having this resource of tried and true ways to care for my home has saved me from scouring the internet for questionable solutions time and again. Highly Recommend!

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Martha Stewart’s Homekeeping Handbook: The Essential Guide to Caring for Everything in Your Home

“Encyclopedic yet friendly, Martha Stewart’s Homekeeping Handbook is a seminal work–a must-have for everyone who wants a well-cared-for home that will endure for generations.”

In the same vein, I think having a book about basic home repairs is also a welcome addition to any new home owners library.

Book cover of How Your House Works by Charlie Wing

How Your House Works: A Visual Guide to Understanding & Maintaining Your Home

Book cover of Pretty Good House A Guide To Creating Better Homes

Pretty Good House offers a refreshing approach to building and renovating high-performance homes.

Book cover of Family Handyman Whole House Repair Guide

Family Handyman Whole House Repair Guide: Over 300 Step-by-Step Repairs

Of course, there are myriad choices in home decorating books that might help your friends nail down their style, make their home more welcoming, or increase their comfort.

Find Your Style

Book cover of HouseBeautiful Style Secrets What Every Room Needs by Sophie Donelson

From the country’s most popular interior design magazine comes a stylish, in-depth look at what it takes to make any room beautiful.

Book cover of The Romance of Home Houses By Motion Interiors by Marcus Mohon

The chic, soulful, livable spaces of Texas-based interior designer Marcus Mohon exert a universal appeal with their air of timeless serenity.

The House That Pinterest Built by Diane Keaton

The House that Pinterest Built

“If you want to explore. If you love to see. If you’re looking to look; this book is an example of a home made from the gifts of other people’s addictive yearnings for the perfect home, with the perfect landscape and the perfect interior. It illustrates my choices of your choices.” – Diane Keaton

Book cover of The Art of Home by Shea McGee

The long-awaited design book from Shea McGee, beautifully showcasing all that is possible for every room of your home.

Explore Interior Design

Book cover of Home At Last Enduring Design for the New American Home by Gil Schafer III

Bestselling author and popular American architect Gil Schafer returns with the final installment in his trilogy on the rewards of living in the American house.

Book cover of House Rules 100 Ways To Feel At Home by Emma Beryl Kemper

We all want a home that is as much tailored to our lives as it is inviting (and impressive) to guests. House Rules helps you achieve both, encouraging you to develop and elevate your personal style, putting it into practice with the tenets of interior design.

Book cover of The Interior Design Handbook by Frida Ramstedt

The new comprehensive bible of interior design, from a home styling guru who has coached an entire Scandinavian generation in the art of creating a harmonious home.

Embrace Color
Book cover of HouseBeautiful Live Colorfully

An inspiring, accessible collection of the colorful interiors at the heart of the House Beautiful.

Book cover of The Well Loved House by Ashley Whittacker

In her first book, Elle Decor A-List decorator Ashley Whittaker shares the secrets of her colorful, pattern-filled classic rooms.

Book cover of House Dressing Interiors For Colorful Living by Janie Molster

From acclaimed Southern designer Janie Molster comes this lively collection of vibrant interiors and insightful advice for colorful living.

Book cover of 70s House by Estelle Bilson

A loud-and-proud gift-style interiors guide crammed full of 70s maximalist inspiration that epitomizes the freewheeling, more-is-more energy of the era.

Book cover of House Of Joy Playful Homes and Cheerful Living by gestalten

House of Joy takes stock of the undercurrents that are shaping the spaces in which we live and work – particularly those that make us smile.

Make Your Home More Welcoming

Book cover of Home Stories Design Ideas For Making A House A Home by Kim Leggett

In Home Stories, learn how to create rooms filled with warmth, meaning, and your own unique story of home from an award-winning interior designer.

Book cover of The Welcoming House by Jane Schwab and Cindy Smith

The owners of the acclaimed stores and decorating firm Circa Interiors present eight stylish, beautiful homes blending comfort, beauty, and function with classic Southern hospitality.

Book cover of Call It Home The Details That Matter by Amber Lewis

Through gorgeous photography and heartfelt essays, the interior designer and author of Made for Living reveals her detail-oriented approach to renovating, decorating, and building a beautiful home.

Increase Your Comfort

Book cover of House + Love = Home Creating Warm, Intentional Spaces for a Beautiful Life by Jenny Mars

The hosts of HGTV’s Fixer to Fabulous welcome you into their home, sharing personal stories and gorgeous photos of their restored farmhouse, their delightful kids, and many of the beautiful, inviting spaces they’ve transformed over the years

Book cover of How To Make A House A Home by Ariel Kaye

More than just a stylish design book: The founder of Parachute Home teaches you how to design a home that’s not only beautiful but mindful, functional, and uniquely you.

Book cover of Hygge Simplified A Guide to Coziness, Comfort & Conviviality

With Hygge Simplified, learn how to find happiness with this essential Scandinavian mindset!

Book cover of Housewarming A Guide To Creating A Home You Adore by Beau Ciolino and Matt Armato

From Matt Armato and Beau Ciolino—the powerhouse couple behind the blog Probably This and #YourGayUncles—a comprehensive guide to living comfortably and beautifully on the cheap by and for millennials

Book Cover of Curate Inspiration For An Individual Home by Lynda Gardener and Ali Heath

An inspirational guide to home decorating with the perennially popular elements of a neutral palette, natural ingredients and a carefully curated mix of vintage and modern pieces.

Book cover of Life Styled Your Guide to a More Organized & Intentional Life by Shira Gill

Ever wish a home organizing expert could help you tidy up your brain too? That’s exactly what the author does with this guide to implementing better habits, setting boundaries, and simplifying your routines.

Other Ideas

Other ideas include books on houseplants, homesteading, gardening, or cooking.

Bonus points for choosing a book that is pretty enough to be a coffee table book.

Take your gifts up a notch by pairing your book gift with another token – flowers, wine, food, dessert and instantly add to the homey-ness of their new abode.

Do you have a go-to housewarming gift? Something that every home should have? 

Let me know in the comments.

May your life be as full as your bookshelf and as long as your TBR list.
Happy Reading!
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Coffee Table Books: Love Them Or Leave Them

Coffee Table Books: Love Them Or Leave Them

Coffee Table Books: Love 'em or Leave 'em?

I love them. I am a firm believer that it is the small details that make a house a home.

Luxury Item

Coffee table books are a sign of luxury associated with having the disposable income to buy beautiful things. If you have a coffee table book, it shows that you care about the details. It also showcases your love of books. They can also communicate that you are interested in whatever topic that coffee table book is about. 

Clutter?

On the other hand, many of us actually live in our houses and use our coffee tables. These can get cluttered and dusty. Trust me, I get it. But for the sake of this post, lets indulge ourselves by acting as if kids pick up after themselves and dust doesn’t exist.

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My Coffee Table

Refinery 29 Reproduction of the Pottery Barn Table (Not My Actual Table)

Many moons ago, my husband and I bought our first piece of furniture together – it was a coffee table. Not just any coffee table though, it was an apothecary table from Pottery Barn. Yes, that table, from Friends Season 6, Episode 11 when Rachel buys an apothecary table and tries to keep Phoebe from discovering it came from a chain store. 

Friends Clip from TBS – YouTube

I love that table. We still have it. On it you will find the usual mish-mash of coasters and remotes. However, when things are tidy, I love to display a few items. I change them out depending on my mood or the season. Often there are coffee table books and/or pretty wooden games. For example, below you’ll see it from the top down with a wooden solitaire game and puzzle, stack of three woodworking books, and a stack of leather storm trooper coasters. 

Next, let’s see how I got started on coffee table books…

 

On a wooden table, a stack of books, a stack of coasters, and two wooden games are artfully arranged.

My Actual Table

My First Coffee Table Book

Browsing a bookstore one day, I came across this book about butterflies, Butterfly by Thomas Marent. I’m not particularly into bugs, and while I have owned it for years I have never read more than a few pages of the book. I simply adored the photography. The images so close up, detailed, bright, and textured. I had to buy it.

I still have it. And it looks great on a coffee table. The book doesn’t really “go with” any other book that I own. In that sense it adds to the eclectic/boho vibe that I love so much. Here you can see it open, displayed on a vintage trunk.

A book displaying a butterfly image on its open pages, lying flat on a surface.

Butterfly by Thomas Marent

What types of books can you use for coffee table books?

The sky is the limit. Use books that you love (like these Shel Silverstein books) or books that complement the aesthetic of your home. Showcase things you are interested in. Some great ideas include travel books, art books, hobby books, books with beautiful covers, or photo-books. Maybe you just keep the next few books from your TBR pile right there. Here are a couple of other ideas for you to consider.

A table displays three books by Shel Silverstein and a vibrant plant, creating a cozy reading atmosphere.

Shel Silverstein Book Stack

Repurpose Textbooks

Another option is to use books that had a previous life. My textbook for a college class,  A World History of Photography by Naomi Rosenblum, has so many beautiful images. It makes a great coffee table book and conversation piece. Generally, if you have taken a class on a subject and kept the book, it must be something you are interested in. Find a way to show it off!

An illustrated photography book adorned with a flower on top, showcasing creativity and nature in a delightful composition.
Vintage books

Pick up interesting old books from thrift shops, estate sales, swap meets, and antiques stores. Depending on what aesthetic draws your eye, these add a dash of something different to your space. For instance, home decor books from the 1970s strike a different pose than, say, 1950s school books.

I am fond of these old mail-order catalogs I picked up years ago, a  1902 Edition Of The Sears, Roebuck Catalogue and 1922 Montgomery Ward Catalogue. These are fun to flip through to see what kinds of things people ordered and the ways that they were described (feeds my inner marketer).

A neatly arranged stack of colorful vintage books and catalogs on a wooden shelf, showcasing various titles and sizes.

Collection of Vintage Books

Coloring books

This is a little bit different spin on a traditional coffee table book, but I think that they can be both beautiful and fun. There are such a wide variety of adult coloring books these days, like Balance: Angie’s Extreme Stress Menders by Angie Grace pictured below. I’d stack a few favorites and top it with a pretty container of sharpened colored pencils (the artist in me recommends Prismacolor colored pencils). Bonus points if you actually use them!

A cheerful arrangement of coloring books alongside a canning jar filled with colored pencils, inviting a moment of relaxation and enjoyment.

Adult Coloring Books With Colored Pencils

How to style coffee table books

Where does your sense of style fall on the minimalist to maximalist spectrum? In some cases, a single book alone on the table is plenty. Others prefer a small stack of books and an accessory or two. Yet other folks prefer to set up a whole scene.

Tips for planning your coffee table book arrangement:

  • They are books, read them!
  • Change them out seasonally to keep your space fresh.
  • Consider whether you prefer the books with or without dust jackets.
  • Stacks of 3-5 are generally enough to add visual interest, but keep the stack stable and accessible.
  • Think about the color of the books and how that works with your overall aesthetic. 

Here are some inspiration photos from across the web and links to the pros who set them up.

For A Touch of Humor On Your Coffee Table...

While writing this post, I couldn’t help but remember the Seinfeld episode in which Kramer created a Coffee Table Book About Coffee Tables. Enjoy the clip and the miniature of his book available on Amazon. 

How do you feel about coffee table books? Love ’em or leave ’em? Let me know in the comments.

May your life be as full as your bookshelf and as long as your TBR list.
Happy Reading!
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The Bookshop: A History of the American Bookstore

The Bookshop: A History of the American Bookstore

Don’t Skip The Introduction!

There’s something about independent bookstores. They’ve got this magic that’s hard to describe. In The Bookshop, Evan Friss digs into the history of these special spots—where books come to life and time seems to stand still. It’s part history lesson, part tribute to the people who’ve poured their hearts into making these spaces feel like home. The intro? Don’t miss it. It’s the perfect way to kick off a journey into the heart of bookselling that’s way more fun than your average history book.

Hype Report

I’ve seen this book on the lists and making the reader’s choice lists. Goodreads raters are giving this 3.94 stars. Having very little experience in the genre, I am going to go with Appropriately-hyped.

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Aesthetic

Front cover of the book "The Bookshop: A History of the American Bookstore" by Evan Friss with comments from the book review.
The Dustjacket

The imagery used evokes feelings of nostalgia for a local independent bookshop. However, the circles on the right side of the cover leave me confused. Is this emulating a bokeh effect or is it supposed to be something hanging inside the store? It’s distracting.

The font choices and styling mimic shop window lettering. I love the color variation that nods to changing light. I think the arched testimonial at the top diminishes the effect and would work better if moved below the author’s name.

Delightful use of the subtitle between the author’s name and book title on the spine. This treatment will look lovely shelved.

Another nod to the nostalgic nature of the cover is the aged paper with a page-turn effect on the bottom of the back cover. In another application, it might look dated, but here it is quite appropriate.

The typesetting on the inner front flap takes what is a very long description and makes sure that the essence is captured in bold at the start.

Interior

Let’s take a moment to appreciate the unsung hero that is the book interior designer. There are so many different types of types that need to be used in a book like this: chapters, breaks in thought, numbering, acknowledgments, end notes, and more! I appreciate how much the design of a book’s interior eases a reader’s understanding and enjoyment.

This book is beautifully typeset, and oh man, am I a sucker for a drop-cap! The clever use of drop-caps to signal a departure from one line of thought to another, even within a chapter, made it easier to follow along with the narrative when it might have gotten messy.

The chapters are delineated with a printed “bookmark,” which while technically unnecessary, adds an element of joy to the reading experience.

Images and illustrations are accompanied by appropriate captions and spaced nicely.

Giving the 1-2 page profiles between chapters a different heading treatment made the reading experience seamless.

Did the design affect whether I bought the book?

No. In this case, I was gifted the book by a fellow book-lover. Despite my mild criticisms of the cover design, I do find this book attractive. I had added it to my Want to Read list based on its ranking in the Goodreads Readers Choice selections anyway.

Summary

In Short

A narrative approach weaving together character sketches of people and places throughout the evolution of bookselling in America that highlights the importance of passionate individuals, community building, and books in shaping culture.

From the Publisher

An affectionate and engaging history of the American bookstore and its central place in American cultural life, from department stores to indies, from highbrow dealers trading in first editions to sidewalk vendors, and from chains to special-interest community destinations

Bookstores have always been unlike any other kind of store, shaping readers and writers, and influencing our tastes, thoughts, and politics. They nurture local communities while creating new ones of their own. Bookshops are powerful spaces, but they are also endangered ones. In The Bookshop, we see the stakes: what has been, and what might be lost.

Evan Friss’s history of the bookshop draws on oral histories, archival collections, municipal records, diaries, letters, and interviews with leading booksellers to offer a fascinating look at this institution beloved by so many. The story begins with Benjamin Franklin’s first bookstore in Philadelphia and takes us to a range of booksellers including the Strand, Chicago’s Marshall Field & Company, the Gotham Book Mart, specialty stores like Oscar Wilde and Drum and Spear, sidewalk sellers of used books, Barnes & Noble, Amazon Books, and Parnassus.

The Bookshop is also a history of the leading figures in American bookselling, often impassioned eccentrics, and a history of how books have been marketed and sold over more than two centuries—including, for example, a 3,000-pound elephant who signed books at Marshall Field’s in 1944.

The Bookshop is a love letter to bookstores, a charming chronicle for anyone who cherishes these sanctuaries of literature, and essential reading to understand how these vital institutions have shaped American life—and why we still need them.

Character Analysis

The Bookshop covers a wide range of (real-life) characters, some accounted in enough detail that you can picture them clearly, others just a name on the page. This is a natural consequence of mining history for descriptions of real people balanced with their importance to the narrative that Friss is weaving throughout.

Storylines of individual characters were treated with respect while offering a clear picture of the trouble in which they sometimes found themselves.

Writing Style

Friss’s writing style vacillates from nostalgic and somewhat romantic storytelling to lists of facts, people, and dates. The former is such a delight for readers, but whenever he stumbled into the latter, I got confused as to why these things were important or connected to the rest of the story. The juxtaposition of these two styles was jarring and made it harder to follow the through-line of the story in places. That might seem off-putting, but I should clarify that it didn’t happen often. There were 2-3 instances in which I was like, “who-za, what now?”

Generally, the whole book is more like a collection of anecdotes joined together by statements of fact. Drawing from such a wide array of source material, I think that Friss did a phenomenal job of making it feel cohesive and deliberate.

We are all curators….The Bookstore – its design and function- has never been a fixed entity. Bookstores reflect the cultural, intellectual, economic, and political world around them, they are also actors, institutions that cast their shadows.

Themes

The overarching theme is that bookshops in America have been and likely will continue to be driven by passionate booksellers who see that there is more to bookselling than profit.

Each of the individuals highlighted is characterized by how their relationship with books and bookselling met with their true passion. Sometimes that was books and other times it was community, activism, or lofty goals of achievement.

Friss also explores the evolution of what is considered a bookshop and who booksellers are. As well as how bookselling is influenced by and in turn influences society at large.

Critical Evaluation

Don’t be fooled by the subtitle “A History of the American Bookstore.” This book is a love letter to booksellers and their places. There were sections in which it was clear that the author wanted to include more, but held back, causing some choppy bits. Overall, this was not a difficult read for someone who is not by nature a “history” reader.

There are copious endnotes for those looking to gain an even deeper understanding of the topic.

Personal Opinion

I liked this book. The themes were accessible, and the writing style was easy to get in sync with. I will proudly display it on my bookshelf, but I am unlikely to re-read it in its entirety. However, I could see myself referencing it at times.

I do not read a great deal of history, though I do read historical fiction. That said, as a side-quest this didn’t feel too far outside the scope of my normal choices.

Loads of fodder for fans of “Fun Facts.”
The following caught my attention:

 

  • Andre Breton and Marcel Duchamp designed a window display called “Lazy Hardware” to promote Breton’s book Arcane 17 at The Gotham Book Mart in 1945.

Arcane 17 by Andre Breton

 

  • In 1976 Bookseller Burt Britton published a book of 739 self-portrait drawings done by authors and book people that he had collected over the years working at The Strand. The book is called Self-Portrait: Book People Picture Themselves.

Self Portrait: Book People Picture Themselves. From the Collection of Burt Britton.

 

  • Nancy Bass of The Strand marketed books for decor purposes “ ‘Books-by-the-foot’ buyers specified the number of feet of shelf space, the subject matter, the binding type, and the color scheme.” Buyers included some well-known celebrities and film and TV productions.

Recommendation

I would recommend it to anyone who has an interest in the history of American bookselling or as a gift for the book fanatic in your life. This is not something that I would recommend for hardcore fiction readers, as there is not enough action or plot continuity to likely keep your interest. If you regularly read history, this is for you.

Notes

Read Time – This book took me longer than my average read time. That is likely because of the dense nature of historical books. There is a lot to absorb and think about rather than trucking along with an engaging plot. As I noticed that I was lagging, I set aside my lunch hour each weekday to read a chapter. Having some structure was helpful for a mood reader who generally goes for fiction titles.

Shout out your favorite bookstore! If it is an independent, tell us the city and state.

May your life be as full as your bookshelf and as long as your TBR list.
Happy Reading!
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